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You could try one of the many sexual
enhancement drugs available today. You could sign up for very expensive
workshops and retreats. You could even strip down and pole dance for
your partner.
My guess is that these things just aren't
your style. I believe that you're seeking natural and balanced healing
for your sex drive and your overweight body.
You're tired, your energy is low and you
aren't feeling quite like you think you should. You don't have
unrealistic expectations. You do have some dreams you've hung onto
despite your physical size. You've clung to them, knowing that some day
those dreams would take you to a place inside you where you were finally
ready to take control.
Welcome to your life. A life that will
continue to grow more healthy, from here on. Once you embark on a
journey of self-discovery and empowerment, you can never plead ignorance
again. You can never say..."I didn't know".
Your sex drive does not need to take a
complete dive while you're in the process of losing weight. That extra
weight does not have to be like carrying heavy sacks of spuds around. It
doesn't have to tire you out.
Simple things you can do to help energize
you and lighten the load include the following suggestions.
1. You can make sure your daily food
intake contains the highest possible raw content you can achieve up to
about 80%. For now, to go much higher is a path you can move into. Keep
the raw fruits and veggies separate and your energy level will steadily
climb. Your body WILL respond to what you feed it. It has no choice,
chemically speaking.
2. Step in place for ten minutes. Hardly
a spit in the ocean of time in your day. Get up and do this for
yourself. I promise your Self will love you for it. Walk around the
block or walk in place. Preferably outside and breathing with a full
inhale/exhale. The more you move, the more you’ll be able to move both
in your live and in your love life. You don’t want your partner to
have to do all the work do you? Keep your eye on the prize. It’s your
dream. You CAN make it happen!
3. Make the choice to work at your sex
life. Most especially if you and your partner have been together a long
time. Sometimes things just need sprucing up. If you feel too overweight
to feel sexy, try splitting a bottle of pleasant red wine. Put on
something nice and enhance the mood of your room. Work at it.
Overweight, underweight or just perfect, people have to make the effort
to keep the sexual tension alive.
4. Tend to your physical appearance.
Sometimes in our daily lives, we forget to take a moment to add the
little touches that we used to do daily. Trim those stray hairs or apply
that bit of lipstick. Small things can enhance your appearance and the
way you walk, adding confidence to your style. When we take care of
ourselves, we stand taller and feel better about ourselves.
5. Don’t let life get in the way of
preserving the passion and fire you and your partner once had. Don’t
let the pounds you’re in the process of losing, discourage you from
feeling just as sexy as you did. You’ll get there again and when you
do, you’ll still have your mate. The one you fell in love with.
Don’t let anything get in the way. Schedule dates with your mate and
make the effort.
We have all sorts of obstacles in life
and each one can seem insurmountable at the time. Later, we can see each
in perspective and sometimes even with humor. Don’t let tomorrow’s
comic relief get you down today. Do something about your sex life and
the drive will take care of itself.
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About The Author
JL
Davis has been writing for over 35 years and is published in
many formats including in-print books, print articles, online publications
and poetry and erotica collections. Her writing covers a wide
variety of topics.
Category: obesity,
sex-drive, weight loss
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